3 Gemstones For Sensuality, Sexuality, Feeling Sexy and Libido.
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Feeling ugly, unsexy and experiencing low libido?
This is a common issue a lot of women experience. Especially if there are blockages in the sacral chakra, also known as Svadhistahana. Blockages in this chakra are often due to sexual shame, trauma and even childbirth, which can leave us feeling low about ourselves, low about our appearance, our sexuality and low libido.
I know, this is a difficult subject to talk about. I get it!
After experiencing a difficult birth with my daughter that lasted 24 hours and ended with an episiotomy, forceps, painful stitches and trauma, I understand the feeling of blockages in this chakra. I understand the feeling of not making an effort to dress up and to look your best, fatigue, yes even low libido. If you are experiencing this, know that this needs attention, addressing and healing. Libido and feeling sexy and beautiful, is an integral part of being alive and health.
My journey to heal this chakra was quite magical. First my friend a powerful herbalist, arvigo practitioner and midwife, Claudia Zanchin gave me a Mayan "closing the bones" ceremony and mayan abdominal massages. My other healer friend, an energetic womb healer, Nikki Hillis, gave me my first womb blessing ceremony, which I intend to bring her in, for an interview, for you all to get acquainted with her work. I also got my vitality back with shiatsu, acupuncture, homeopathy, Peruvian plant medicine and herbal medicine. And last, my amazing partner who is the most supportive person in my life, gifted me a year of art classes for my birthday right after giving birth, where every Thursday evening I would leave my baby with him, to draw, paint and be creative, which heals this chakra too.
I also started a personal relationship with moonstone two years ago. When I wear this gemstone I instantly feel beautiful and sexy.
My top favourite gemstone for sensuality, sexuality, libido, passion, pleasure and beauty is Moonstone , which balances the sacral, third eye and crown chakra. Moonstone is a gemstone for fertility and embodying the goddess, the divine feminine energy and archetype.
When making jewelry I tend to put moonstone in all pieces to heal our collective feminine energy, for healing repressed sexual shame in the sacral chakra. Which woman doesn’t need that? A woman who is not feeling beautiful, confident in her body and sensuality, or that is experiencing loss of libido or sexual shame, definitely has to heal the sacral chakra and awaken her divine feminine. Most women in westernised cultures have over-identified with their animus, masculine characteristics. This also affects the sacral chakra.
The healing of our collective feminine is so important to bring balance back to our world. Women have forgotten their power and place as a woman. The power of the feminine isn't about competing or acting in a scarcity mindset. It is about collaboration, community and nurturing. She builds her queendom from a mindset of abundance. She is aware of her body, her pleasure, her wild emotions and creativity. She uses unconditional love as the source of her power. She is a creative storm and minds her home, planet Earth. Her power is her ability to make the world beautiful, pleasurable and abundant for all. Her power is creating and sustaining life. Even men need to awaken their anima, feminine energy. To be more compassionate, dedicated to his own self-care, scheduling time for creative and chaotic, flow activities that bring joy.
Our 2nd chakra is the sacral chakra, an energy centre known as Svadhistahana. It’s located two fingers under the navel. It’s key word is fertility and pleasure. A space where the soul experiences sensorial, sensual pleasure, creation and birth to creativity. It’s symbol is water and it is represented by the colour orange.
The Japanese call it Hara, the centre of strength. It is linked to our sexual organs, desire, sensuality, pleasure, appetite towards food, life, love and passion. When this chakra is out of balance it manifests in lack of libido, sexual issues or shame, poor appetite, eating disorders, lack of pleasure and depression. If this chakra is out of balance, a person may also be lacking self-care and may be presenting themselves as a slob.
Another important gemstone to heal the sacral chakra is Carnelian. It is a grounding and fiery gemstone to light up the sacral chakra, bringing pleasure, vitality, sensuality and fertility. Think of that summer orange zest for life! That is Carnelian. A mimosa by the beach, summer beats dancing sensually and celebrating life.
Orange and terracotta coloured gemstones heal the sacral chakra and make you feel alive, bursting with creativity and joy.
My last gemstone for feeling like the sexiest, goddess ever is kunzite and it is to heal the heart chakra, also known as Anahata. When this heart chakra is open and energy is flowing, we feel beautiful and in love with ourselves and life. We accept all of our perceived flaws and imperfections. We radiate in wholeness, self-love and beauty, that is extremely magnetic and sexy. I love adding Kunzite with moonstone, I also have a Mala that has the three mentioned gemstones, called "amplify mala". All mentioned gemstones are available in my creations for purchasing and starting your self-care journey.
Check out our shop to find moonstone, carnelian and kunzite jewelry to heal your sacral chakra and make you feel like the sexiest person in the planet. Let me know in the comments if you enjoyed this article and don’t hesitate to share with that friend of yours that need a bit more zest and fun!
Sending you love and light,
Dani
